5/01/2012

Leadership at Harvard

It is time to start paying more attention to my blog in the upcoming days since I am planning to use this interface for my Leadership class. This course offered throughout the summer semester in Harvard will mainly require students to engage in dialogue and discussions involving leadership related topics over the blogger interface. Looking forward to making a great project, I already have Margaret Thatcher in mind but that mind be a repetition of past projects, so we'll see…/

3/20/2012

SEEKING DEATH PENALTY FOR CHILD RAPISTS

I. Intro
Imagine you are the parent of a new born baby. He smells so sweet like the milk he drinks. You are even afraid to hold him because he is so fragile. So you wrap him into softest blankets like his skin. After all, he is a sweet defenseless angel and deserves to be loved and cared infinitely. Little time passes and apple of your eye turns 1 month old when he gets brutally raped and sodomized that he suffers serious sexual and internal injuries, a broken arm, collar bone, punctured lungs and fractures to every rib. His rape causes him so much pain that your 1 month old suffers a heart attack. It is extremely graphic and unbelievably dramatic isn't it?
But this is a true event that took place in December 2011.
How do you feel about this? Anger? Disgust? Revenge?
What punishment is appropriate?
What does Child Rape do to a Victim: If you read about rape victims' testimonials, they say the brutal rape of a child is more heinous and more hideous than a homicide. It takes away their innocence, it takes away their childhood, it mutilates their spirit. It kills their soul. They're never the same after the rape. The victim does not continue to live like you and I live. They die inside and no therapy can reverse what has been done to them. Victims call their attackers "soul murderers". What punishment is appropriate?

My Opinion: I am a mother of a 2 year old toddler. Whenever I read the news about rape of a child, I go to a dark place. Imagining that anyone would even lay a finger on my son, let alone beat and brutally rape him takes me to this dark place. In this place, I only have one punishment for the attacker; death penalty.

II. Why Death Penalty?
Current Status: In U.S. only homicide is punishable by death penalty.

What does Constitution say (Cruel and Unusual Punishment): Constitution says "besides murder, no crime deserves death penalty". Let me explain what it means. Remember the 1 month old who had heart attack during his attack? If law puts a silent but lethal injection to his rapists arm, then, it is regarded as a cruel and unusual punishment. Cruel and unusual...I thought what he did to this defenseless child over and over again while poor baby cried in vain, was cruel and unusual! The cruelty did not end with the attack either. The surgeries little boy will have to go through to fix his sexual organs and his bones and his internal organs will continue to give him pain. Lastly, he will continue to live knowing what has been done to him.

Too bad, your monster will live. He might get parole. If your monster gets released, he might come back to get you!
All because constitution says we cannot seek death penalty for the rape of a child.

Death Penalty for Child Rape is not a new idea:
Congress added child rape to the military death penalty in 2006.
Five states passed laws allowing the death penalty for the rape of a child.

Supreme Court's Decision: However, U.S. Supreme Court made a close call decision on 2008 and held that the death penalty would be grossly disproportionate and an excessive punishment for any offense against an individual that did not involve death of the victim.

What Now?: If the rapist was nice enough not to use a weapon (sexual assault charge), he can get 2-20 years in prison. If he was a mean monster with a weapon, (Aggravated Sexual Assault charge) only then, he can get 5-99 years in prison.

Can you imagine living with the possibility that your rapist will continue living his life and might be released and rape other children.
What I am proposing: I am proposing that Death penalty be legalized for child rape. I support all the precautions taken within our death penalty system, in order to guard innocent people being sentenced to die. The burden to establish irrefutable evidence is on law makers and if they can establish that innocence is out of question through DNA testing then the death penalty should be carried through a lethal injection right away.

III. Why?
Firstly, victims' thoughts matter. They prefer their rapists be penalized with death. They view their attack as a destruction of their lives which usually leads to a life of self destruction, suicide and even drug addiction. The spiritual damage rapists cause is worse than death. Therefore death penalty for child rapists is not cruel and unusual punishment. It is justice.
Secondly, this punishment is for society to protect its children. We simply cannot risk repeat offenses after parole.
Thirdly, none of us, especially the victims, as taxpayers should have to pay to provide food and roof over the heads of rapists in prison.
Finally, we should have death penalty for the peace of the public conscience.

IV. Conclusions:

As President Obama says "this is a crime so heinous, so beyond the pale, that the community is justified in expressing the full measure of its outrage by meting out the ultimate punishment."
Lastly I would like to quote a child rape victim on her thoughts when asked about her thoughts on her rapists' death penalty conviction: "It's going to be justice, it's going to be that I can look forwards and not backwards, and not have to look over your shoulders, and one day see him. Or see him coming after me."

3/17/2012

Being a World Citizen

I. What is world citizenship?
Human beings are destined to discover. Discovering self, discovering love, discovering the world and discovering the other. But often, due to our habits, we find it hard to get out of our comfort zone, leave our shores, go beyond the breakwater. Generally it is easier to swim with the current and discover “self” than “the other”. Because discovering, accepting or tolerating “the other” requires us to break our mental barriers and swim across the current. It takes a big heart to embrace the compilations of all “others”; that is the world.
In “An intimate history of humanity”, a book written by celebrated humanist Theodore Zeldin, one of the characters describes herself as follows; “I am a world citizen, I feel all the pains suffered anywhere on the world”. As a world citizen, she feels selflessness and she values all human beings equally.
World citizenship is a package which includes appreciation for the diverse cultures in the world, and a desire for world peace. This is possible by caring for the welfare of all living creatures. The altruism aspect of world citizenship is what fascinates me personally.

II. Who are world citizens?
A. Example from Art
One Arabic calligrapher, Ali Omar Ermer expresses his world citizenship by using Arabic and English on same canvas so his binding art can be enjoyed and understood by all people. He wants to break the barriers of communication between people and languages.
B. Example from Religion
One religion, Baha’ism, emphasizes the spiritual unity of all mankind. It teaches world peace thorough alliances of all countries and a second language for all nations.
C. Political Example
One political movement, internationalism advocates that regardless of nationality, all human are equal as no race is superior to other and no human can be blamed for the race choice he never possessed.

III. Why become a world citizen?
Simply because, all the boundaries that make up countries, alliances, religion and race are man made and fictionary. The barbed wire borders that divide the nations seems to exist in our minds as well. Our preoccupation with ourselves is the barbed wire around our minds.
Einstein explains why we should become world citizens as follows; he says human being is a part of a whole. He says the feeling of separateness is a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. And this optical delusion is a prison for us. It restricts us to our personal desires and to care for only a few people near us. He suggests that the task of humanity must be, to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.
IV. Conclusion
World citizenship concept might sound utopic and new. On the contrary, it is one of the oldest concepts that dates back to birth of humanity when there were no differences between people.
Somewhere in the middle we lost this concept when we became a modern yet selfish human being.
Today, we have an opportunity to reverse this. Thanks to social media and internet, we have the opportunity to discover the other side of the world without even traveling there. We can perform our altruistic actions and charity events with the click of a button. We just need the will power to discover and help the other.
All of us are temporary on this world like flowers that bloom and die, but we can surely make a dent in the world by spreading our pollens and caring for the welfare of others before they too perish.
Being a world citizen is the only key to accomplish world peace in our minds and in reality.

12/08/2010

Tokyo Webcam - JAPAN Web Camera (School cam)

Tokyo Webcam - JAPAN Web Camera (School cam)

Teknoloji ne garip...Kendi oglumun okulunda webcam yok ve tum gun onu goremiyorum ama aksam oturdugum yerden Tokyo'da sabah 10 uykusuna yatmis bebeklerin webcam goruntulerini izleyebiliyorum.

En güzel 10 kış bahçesi

En güzel 10 kış bahçesi

10/13/2010

Moving



Ozdemir Asaf described "Tasinmak (Moving)" in his poem as follows

There is no sadder break off
than moving
or a rupture, an injury,
a hidden sob like it.


A couple of people around me are considering moving to a new home...God knows maybe I will have to sell my house and move myself oneday...So this one comes for all the moving and boxing people from Jerry:

"when you're moving your whole world becomes boxes. that's all you think about is boxes. boxes, where are there boxes? you just wander down the street going in and out of stores. are there boxes here? have you seen any boxes? i mean it's all you think about. you can't even talk to people because you can't concentrate. shut up i'm looking for boxes. just after a while you become like really into it you can smell them. you walk into a store. there's boxes here. don't tell me you don't have boxes. dammit, i can smell them. i'm like i'm obsessed. i love the smell of cardboard in the morning. you could be at a funeral. everyone's mourning crying around, and your looking at the casket. that's a nice box. does anyone know where that guy got that box? when he's done with it do you think i could get that? it's got some nice handles on it. and that's what death is really. it's the last big move of your life. the hearse is like the van. the pale bearers are your close friends the only ones you could ask to help you with a big move like that. and the casket is that great perfect box you've been waiting for your whole life the only problem is, once you find it you're in it."

10/08/2010

Dream "Khwaab"

I really adore the following song from Niraj Chag. It is from the Putumayo album. Khwaab means dream. I fell in love with the Hindi lyrics then I found the English translations which were even more lovable. After all it means something, not like many other Hindi love songs that talk about same boy-girl love over and over again. Not that I don't like them but for once I found myself bumping into one song that has both good lyrics and also soul resting quality.

Here are the lyrics:
There was a season when my steps were unwavering
Within me was this ocean
That would repair and cure me of all my pains
But at the passing of time
I am no longer certain of my hearts integrity
The days of my youth
Now only an abstract memory

Is my essence just a delusion?
How long do I submit to such a night
Where dreams are shattered
And mine forsake me
My silent cries reveal the stains of my memory

Everything is fragmented its falling apart
Yet perfectly connected, attached, aligned in my heart
A collage of hopes I had commissioned from within
Were denied me and blotted out
They cannot understand my lifes journey
So I alone must complete it

Disconnected from my thoughts
Disconnected from my dreams
This life
This road in silent suffering I must travel

10/02/2010

Kumbh Mela

Ah India post once again. Here is a video of the 2010 Purna Kumbha Mela (massive pilgrimage in which Hindus gather at the Ganges River) at Haridwar, India. I haven't seen Haridwar also (in addition to majority of India). I have seen only handful of cities and towns really in North India. I will go back! For sure!
Kumbh Mela is in January and February...save the date. If want to be more specific; the Purna Kumbha Mela will again be held at Prayag in 2013 (January 27). I will be 33 then. Good year to go if you ask me.

INDIA KUMBH MELA from warmeye on Vimeo.

Mickey Smith's Dark Side of the Lens

DARK SIDE OF THE LENS from Astray Films on Vimeo.